Rework Buildimage and Pipeline due to Circular Dependency of Rocksdb in Build Image

[pSchlarb]

Same as hyperledger/indy-plenum#1634

• move to a slimmed down buildimage(only the dependencies needed for creating the package),

• rearrange the pipeline so that it installs node with the just built package for testing, which should pull in all the required dependencies.

• rework the indy-shared-gha call of the jfrog-cli to be able to override/update files (maybe just permissions for the token )